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Sexual confidence is not about being "good" in bed. It's not about having ripped abs or big boobs.


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Sometimes there is nothing more motivating than an inspirational quote. Save them for your next low self-esteem day, share them with your friends or just read them and tell me which one is your favorite in the comments below.

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People like to cut us down because they think we "need" it. My boyfriend had rolls, yes, but he had nice smooth rolls of soft tan skin. And when I got to the last paragraph, well I started crying. What I feel is important to promote is that we should be aware of our size, whether under or overweight.

So many times I lay and bed thinking he is just lying and that he'll love me more if I'm thin, but because of this blog, I know those thoughts are bullshit. And it doesn't come from having a lot of sex. But yeah, there is definitely a lid for every pot.

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I could go for walks and not get tired and winded. I think we forget that because fat men aren't as stigmatized in the media as fat girls are.

Master March Nice and empowering until you decide to name your type and call it "conventionally attractive" instead of just saying who you're attracted to simply: "tall guys with tattoos," and owning that. Jun My self-consciousnesses is so bad that i wouldnt let my picture be taken even with my son, until a good friend pointed out that if i kept it up my son would never have any pictures of me.

That brief conversation crushed me and made my pregnant butt implode into thinking my husband only married me because he thought I'd get thin again. I would add since I play for both teams that girls can also find you sexy AND you can bang hot girls. It's about having more energy.

How to feel sexually confident, especially if you're struggling with body image

Thank you for writing such an amzing post that I can't believe no one's actually written before. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you are more than a body. While it can mean different things to different people, at its core sexual confidence is feeling comfortable in your body, knowing you deserve pleasure and being able to articulate what you enjoy — as well as listening to the needs of your sexual partner. Family and Relationships. When I shared it on Facebook, one of my friends a skinny dude, if it matters made a point that I wanted to share, in relation to the "Fat chicks bang hot guys all the time.

I'm not going to spend a whole lot of time explaining this to you, because quite frankly it's none of your business.

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We have to learn to love ourselves now or nothing will ever change. I have someone in my life who is convinced that arm flab is disgusting and ugly. I am a first time mom of a wonderful 9 month old and he is the greatest thing ive ever done, but the pregnancy left me almost 70lbs over weight.

And yes, physically extremes hurt our body machines. This is the best thing I've ever read. If recognizing your inherent talents and strengths and leaving your looks behind brings you peace and happiness It hurt.

I know, I was one! People treat women VERY differently based on weight, and it even translates into pay and promotions. I agree with you on this too I have a lot of issues with my body and thought a good way to help myself out with it was to have pictures done of myself, so I went to a friend that is a photographer and asked her to do a photo shoot with me. I like fat guys, tall guys, short guys, husky ones, tattooed men, guys who ride motorcycles, basketball players, artists, stereotypical nerds, personal trainers and so on.

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I'm not trying to tear you down for your preferences. I would always try to stand up or elongate my body so I could avoid my rolls from being seen, and I would just always be uncomfortable and upset with myself. She looked me straight in the eye and said, "You seem very confident to me. It shouldn't have made a difference but it did--there's a reason that Nash in the video I linked above makes a big point of telling people to smile at everyone, but especially fat people.

Positive thoughts and words towards myself have literally changed my life. A shit ton of guys want nothing to do with me. I have never seen it until today and I'm going to share that with the girls in my group. I don't this is something that just "fat" girls should hear, because I know skinny girls who need to hear it, curvy girls, pretty girls, plain girls, conservative girls, quirky girls, tall girls, short girls, and every kind of girl that goes through every day just not feeling good enougheither because of what the mirror has to say to her face, or what others have to say behind her back.

I'm new-ish, but absolutely adore this blog. Simply love it. From one "big" girl to another: I think you're gorgeous.

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And while it's hard to take your own advice, it's easier to take someone else's. Going to a wedding? And your article has re-enforced this for me and no doubt countless other women : xx. And because that's what you should be thinking about. Not for their girlfriend's self image, but for their own! Now I realise what the problem is and once I learn to fall in love with myself I can get any guy I want!

Three "My weight? To base our opinion of ourselves on what we think other people find attractive is irrational and self-defeating. I've been over weight for quite sometime and I just cannot get dates with anybody. I started breaking that almost seven years ago when I tried belly dance for the first time.

For a long time I put conditions on trying or not trying things because of my weight. I shall attempt to be kinder to myself, and remind myself that while I may not see a gorgeous woman, someone else does, and hopefully I can see her too with enough hard work :. It took me until my late 30s to realize that there are men who LOVE bigger girls.

And finally able to love myself. It's taken a lot of experimentation on my end to figure out what that means, but it includes everything from the clothes I wear to how I treat other people This needs to go viral! I'm very informed on the transition of preferred body shapes depending on the decade and culture.

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PS, judging by the picture, I wouldn't call you heavy at all. We look kind of funny together, but in a cute way. I used to wear baggy clothes and hunch over a lot to hide my size. I started exercising to get rid of the fat. I love to see the surprised looks on peoples' faces when they see the way I can move and that I'm just as good as anyone in the troupe. My body is the only one I can draw the line for, and everyone else's is their own business.

Thanks for taking the time to write this Jes and know that for the people who this has had a positive impact on, you are a champ :! It is more likely I'll find one woman too skinny than another one too large. Back to top. You can change your body and weigh to a point, but not all bodies are meant to be skinny. This was the slap in the face I needed. Contact Me. Anonymous May 1, at AM. I am not pretty, by most all? Much love ladies! We are all worth that sort of relationship. It's part of being a woman.

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Thanks so much. A little hair and makeup and some flattering cloths and they realize how gorgeous they really are. Wedding Reception. Thank God for her and you and people like you guys.

And I've just learned this. I'm printing it out and when I feel like crap I'm going to read it and remember - I'm fucking amazing. Lugh April 30, at PM. But my internal voice keeps saying "lying to yourself doesn't make it a fact". I don't really know what I"m trying to say, maybe I just needed to vent. More power to you grrrlfriend. I weigh and I have a 4 yr degree,dedicate my life to helping people, and am the nicest person anyone could meet.

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Mary April 30, at PM. And I commend you for it. Print Cancel. I never cared for how I looked because I have always thought thick girls were attractive so I am not happy with my body. I have packed on 25 lbs since I got married and had a baby and I really don't feel that sexy anymore.